Sorry My Dear Friend :(
Jpm4upmFri, 06 Apr 2007 17:24:55 +000007 19, 2007
“Updates”
He finally talked to his mother, she tried to defense and gave some reasons, but u know in such a case no matter what the reason was, doesn’t give her any excuse to do it. But then, she’s his mother, and she pretend to feel sorry. For my friend it is not the end, but only because he’s father coming on Friday and he doesn’t want to show it, at least not now.
God bless u my dear friend…
I’m really shocked today,, what happened to my friend is something cant be beleived!! I really want to cheer him up but I cant really blame him to be that depressed,, I really dont know how to help him get over this!!!
I have a friend, he’s 25, we’re friends since i was 14, he’s so sweet, very classy in the way he deals with others, responsible since he was a kid, he never gets mad like once we have a fight he calls me the same day as if nothing happen… he’s the only guy i’ve ever met who understand what a friendship means…
Last 10 days we were talking, i felt something wrong from his tone, but he kept pretending that there’s nothing.. his voice was so depressed.. he called me last night at 2 am!! I was sleeping, but when he asked i said no im still awake… i felt like he wanna talk…. i told him u never hided anything!! what have changed now,, what is that u cant say to me??? is it work? is it family? is it love? is it friend? whatever it was,, nothing deserve to take the happiness from u….
Not this time Deem…
Come ooooooon please, i beg u for the 100 time talk… please
Its my mom…
What about her? is she okay??
No answer!!!
Whats wrong?? is she okay????
U know im not used to get back home before 1 or 2 am…
Yea
And u know my father is in Germany for the pass two weeks…
Aha
That day,, I went back home 10:30,, I was feeling dizzy and i just wanted to lay down and relax at home… wish i didnt get back..
Why what happened???
The home was lighten and nobody was there, i went to check my little sis room and she was sleeping,, i called mom but no answer,, so I went to her room and………..
And what???????
I found her with a guy in her bed…
WHAT????????
Yes,, in a sexual position,,, my mom deem…
I was so shocked,, didn’t even know what to tell him,,, he was quiet and i was too….
He told me that he took all his stuff and went to apartment,, and that she kept calling him but he’s not answering…. He’s so depressed,, he doesn’t know what to do when his father get back…
I’ve called him today,, and he said that i felt better, at least someone is sharing this with me…. but no, his voice was still the same… and he doesn’t wanna talk about it…..
I really dont know how he will get over this 
Jpm4upmFri, 06 Apr 2007 17:50:36 +000007 19, 2007 at
@@!!! 3endena hal sowalef e7na?! O thought hal shy enshofa bel aflam bs!! Bada3at omah!! 7adha unfaithful and she didn’t respect her husband and her kids!! I mean dam her daughter still home she should of thought about that b4 doing it home.. Well what a bitch!? but i guess as a friend… lazem etkonen with him o etgolenla mekhalef things happen o enta tefaham weyaha o golaaha laish yoma chethy o khal eshof shino 3etherha o esh9ayer? Y3ny don’t leave him alone and sorry for ur friend.. ma2saaat wallah
Oh nesait… SnipeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeR!!
Jpm4upmFri, 06 Apr 2007 17:59:24 +000007 19, 2007 at
what a misfortunate luck with him. it is really too bad to happen to anyone..
but do u think it is ok to write it down here at ur blog? isn’t this something private?
Jpm4upmFri, 06 Apr 2007 18:40:50 +000007 19, 2007 at
thats awful!!!
I dont know what to call his mom….witch with a b is most fitted here
her kids her husband…her son is 25 for teh love of GOD…yes she is still a woman…if u r not happy with ur husband get a divorce ow ba3deen run wild…
walllah damdoomah allah y3een ur friend….almoseeba she is his mother…..almaskeen is gonna have a problem trusting all women now
why would ppl do that…..le hal darajah alshe6an msay6er 3aliha….in her house…in her husband’s bed…and her daughter sleeping in the next room?????
ween al7aya!!
wallah iam so shocked…not that i havent heard of this be4…and trust me the reasons are always sooooooooo lame….allah y3een ur friend….and be a true friend and I know u are deem and stick by him….he has to know that not all women are like that…ra7 yseer 3nda 3egdah nafsieyah wallah…
Jpm4upmFri, 06 Apr 2007 21:21:36 +000007 19, 2007 at
magool ‘3air make sure ur there for him, theres nothing u really can do to help his situation so thats the least u can do.
oo ala i3eenkum both him for what hes goin thru and you for what u’ll face sticking by him cuz even thou u wana help you knw there isnt much u can do and if u knw the feeling ull knw tis not a pleasent one. If i were you id wait til hes feeling a bit better and ask him to go talk to his mom lana regardless of what shes done shes his mom o the least he can do is hear her out o ba3dain yit9araf with whatever way he sees best.
Jpm4upmFri, 06 Apr 2007 23:25:30 +000007 19, 2007 at
oh my god.. alllah layeblana enshalla…6ab3an mako wala 3ither yisma7lahaa itsawee chethe wo 7ata lo fee 3endaha her own reasons bes hashay allah mayertha feeeh wala deenah wala mojtama3na .. bes shesawee:S 9ej lazem yesma3 menha bes still la la magdar astaw3ebbbb allah layeblana enshallla estaghfaralla:S
Jam4uamSat, 07 Apr 2007 00:10:33 +000007 19, 2007 at
maskeeeeeeeeeeeen! the poor thing!! oma 9ij jileelat 7aya! allah y3eena 3alaiha.. im afraid theres nothin much u can do except for be there for talks ou te7el6em.. i think everyone said it all..
waaaaaaaaaaai inba6at chabdi ! ma testi7i ! zain sawa he left her..
Jam4uamSat, 07 Apr 2007 03:13:24 +000007 19, 2007 at
way3aaaaaaa… allah egharbelhaa laiiish chethe !! w bintiiich ya malech el shagool BINTIIIICHHH
malat..
allah e3eeena.. does he need a shoulder to cry on
? mine is available 
Jam4uamSat, 07 Apr 2007 09:46:09 +000007 19, 2007 at
I feel sad…. i pray that he will come over it… now that he is 25 he should move out of there and leave the couple sort out thier own problem !
Jpm4upmSun, 08 Apr 2007 14:36:27 +000007 19, 2007 at
sorry for that !
Jam4uamTue, 10 Apr 2007 03:58:36 +000007 19, 2007 at
this sux!!
allah e3ena 7bebty
im thinking he should give his a family a chance to mend.
by not telling his dad ofcourse it will only make manners worst.
he should talk to his mom,
he should talk and talk … understand things.
he must make sure if she stops doing this she would not because shes afraid he would tell her husband
but because shes sorry and she was on the wrong path.
and she should work things in her life specialy with her husband no matter what they were.. they should work them out …
i dont know what to say really.
may god help them, and u.
Jpm4upmWed, 11 Apr 2007 14:33:35 +000007 19, 2007 at
Zizo:
Ya lel asaf 3endenaaa chthy,,, bs mn ta7t lee ta7t…
The simper:
And its still private, as long as im writing in general and not mentioning names!
Ghasheema:
Thats why i was shocked, mo bs cuz ehya ga3d tkhooon but alson at HER FAMILY HOME… ya3ni le hadaraja mafe e7saaaas!!! but she might felt comfort cuz her husban is out and she didnt expect her son to get back!
Those ppl are sick… hope time will erase this o ma tkhalee 3enda 3oqda..
Dooda:
Yea it hurts when u cant do anything for ur friends the time they need it!! bs enshalla it will be fixed after he talked to her…
Shakshaka:
Aked mako mobare ghair enha sick… he did talked to her, bs methel ma gelti mako 3ether ydesh el3agel…
Omtanto7:
Yea alla y3eena,,, he left her, bs ham again shes his mother and he cant leave her for too long.. too complicated…
Um-mit3iib:
Ehya law feeha tharat e7saas ma dakhalat rayal el bait o her daughter naymaaa.. bs shagooool…
And thanx for ur shoulder
ill tell him 
Happy Wolf:
Its a pitty,,, how can the couple solve the problem if he’s the only one who knows about it!!
Loco:
Thanx sugar…
No3ik:
Thanx for the suggestions,, he did talk to her, and she seem to be sorry,, but how can u beleive her??? its to difficult to trust such a women again…
Thank u so much dear…
Jam4uamThu, 12 Apr 2007 11:12:09 +000007 19, 2007 at
zaaaaaaain ashwa… yalla its gonna take a while bes inshalla they’ll get there.. i cant even imagine their state
Jam4uamSat, 14 Apr 2007 09:41:56 +000007 19, 2007 at
ekhhhh !!
mowghif sa3ib :/
allah e3eena inshalah o esahil 3alaih..
Jpm4upmSat, 14 Apr 2007 22:12:47 +000007 19, 2007 at
oh my god
7asait ini makhnooga while i read this
a friend of mine went thru the exact same thing, except he didnt see his mom having sex
long story short
he went to see a psycologist and what he told him was its his motheres responsibility to tell his father, not his, all he can do is pressure his mom to do so
he cant let her hide something like this
allah y3eena
oo y9aber galbah ya rab
Jam4uamThu, 26 Apr 2007 10:07:38 +000007 19, 2007 at
this is very shitty … i donno what to say, but i personally think that the guy should let his father know about this. i doubt that the mother will tell the father about this. the father should know about what happened to know what kind of a woman he is living with.
i really feel very sorry for your friend. i donno what would i do if i were him. his father should face the truth though.
as some already mentioned, this will just let the guy mistrust all the women in the whole word. if his mother does such a thing, what would other women in the world do? i’m afraid he is not even going to marry. God bless him